How to talk so teens will listen & listen so teens will talk

The renowned #1 New York Times bestselling authors share their advice and expertise with parents and their teens in this accessible, indispensable guide to surviving adolescence Acclaimed parenting experts Adele Faber and Elaine Mazlish transformed parenting with their breakthrough, bestselling books Siblings Without Rivalry and How to Talk So Kids Will Listen and Listen So Kids Will Talk. Now, they return with this revolutionary guide that tackles the tough issues teens and their parents face today. Filled with straightforward, no-nonsense advice and written in their trademark, down-to-earth, accessible style sure to appeal to both parents and teens, this all-new volume offers both innovative suggestions that can be put into immediate action and proven communication skills to build the foundation for lasting family relationships. Covering topics from curfews and cliques to sex and drugs, it gives parents and teens the tools to resolve parent-teen conflict and safely navigate the often stormy years of adolescence. This indispensable guide offers proven strategies to help you reconnect with your teen: Deal with Feelings: Learn how to listen and acknowledge your teen’s emotions—from disappointment and anger to anxiety—without dismissing them or starting an argument. Engage Cooperation: Discover respectful alternatives to nagging and threats that invite your teenager to work with you on everything from chores to curfews. Alternatives to Punishment: Move beyond grounding and lectures with effective methods that encourage responsibility and self-correction instead of resentment. Navigate Tough Topics: Find the right words to talk about sensitive issues like sex, drugs, and peer pressure in a way that your teen will actually hear. Problem-Solve Together: Utilize a step-by-step process to resolve conflicts and find solutions that work for both of you, strengthening your relationship for the long term.